should a relationship be serious or kidding around when u start one?
October 29th, 2009
and than when u fall for someone than the fun is gone than u gotta be serious?
see i'm like this... like this girl said we should hang out sometime, i'm like sure, that would be fun... and than shes like, teasing me, we can go makeout or something and i was all serious lol.. saying what? and she was saying she was only Kidding.... how do i lighten up... should i just go with the flow of what happens and not take it too seriously?
go with the flow sweety
November 7th, 2009 at 4:28 am
it should always be serious
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November 7th, 2009 at 4:55 am
kidding.
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November 7th, 2009 at 5:45 am
BAAHHAHA!!
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November 7th, 2009 at 6:30 am
go with the flow sweety
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November 7th, 2009 at 6:52 am
its gotta be fun or wats the point
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November 7th, 2009 at 7:17 am
take it slowwww
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November 7th, 2009 at 8:02 am
Lighten up
have some fun
if she says lets make out
tease her backk
you wanna
with like a smirk or somethin
and just go with the floww
Lmaoooo.
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November 7th, 2009 at 8:34 am
when I 1st went out with (the guy I love)
it was nothing serious just going out
but as time started passing by
I think I started falling more for him
and then you start taking things more seriously
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November 7th, 2009 at 9:23 am
Chill, Relax, Serious.
Overall, go with the flow.
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November 7th, 2009 at 9:51 am
your a guy you should jus go with the flow do what she wants to do girls dont like all serious guys but when it comes the time to be serious then yaa but when your just trying to have some fun jus go with the flow have fun
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November 7th, 2009 at 10:32 am
she seems like a tease.
NEXT GIRL!
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November 7th, 2009 at 10:42 am
it’s always safe to start it casual.
if feelings develop, you can turn it into something serious.
starting all serious can make you feel tied down.
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November 7th, 2009 at 11:17 am
it should always be serious looking for the Queen or King SOUL MATE
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November 7th, 2009 at 11:34 am
dont take it to seriously. i learned the hard way. I was going out with this guy and he was like hey, want to make out? and i was like WHAT and he was all like …nevermind… and then the next day he broke up with me. so just let it flow, pretend you guys are still really good friends:) hope i helped
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November 7th, 2009 at 12:07 pm
Just go with your gut, there are no rules that need to be followed. But from the sound of it I’d say your relationship is more so the joking couple than the serious one, but things could change if you want them to.
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November 7th, 2009 at 12:47 pm
At first be serious but when you start dating you can kid around a little bit.
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November 7th, 2009 at 1:07 pm
you should be serious to an extent…i mean you dont have to be all uptight and super serious to the point where theres no fun..plus you dont want to scare her off…but it shouldnt be just a fling..a relationship should always have meaning.
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November 7th, 2009 at 1:40 pm
Well it shouldnt be either.
Just play along with her and dont worry
im in the same kina situation so yea..
i just try to go along with it and be mellow laugh with her and be like
"only if you want to"
everything will be fine i promise!(:
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November 7th, 2009 at 2:09 pm
JUST PLAY with her back like lets go or When?Where?
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November 7th, 2009 at 2:25 pm
It shouldn’t be serious or kidding , however it should be down to earth and there shouldn’t be any confusion. Your supposed to have some fun and just get to know each other as friends then see where it takes the two of you. No strings attached… Just sincere acquaintances. It doesn’t sound like she really knows how to act either. So perhaps the two of you can come to an understanding about how your dating lives should be.
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November 7th, 2009 at 3:13 pm
Kid around like she does til she falls for yu. Im sure she will in the long run!! Wen yu finally have her take things serious an slow jus not too slow ;]
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November 7th, 2009 at 3:22 pm
Well i suggest that instead of beating around the bush and @ the same time giving yourself a headache, just say this :
" How serious are we?" if she doesnt get what you mean explain it to her with the explaination in your question. Beating around the bush and assuming has a funny saying: when you assume you make a fool(cant say real word) out of you and me.GOOD LUCK!
-T.B.S
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November 7th, 2009 at 4:07 pm
Hi I guess it depends on how you feeel about the person…
I mean if you really want to get to know someone better you should take it slow at first and see how it goes. If they want you more than you can try a different pace… But in your case it probably seems like she really likes you! But has an oddddd.. way of showing it! Hope this helps…
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From experience
November 7th, 2009 at 4:45 pm
Have fun, get to know the person, find out about her family, her likes and dislikes before you become all serious. Couples get too serious too fast and don’t even know each other middle names. Before you get serious find out what size shoe she wears, her religious beliefs. Does she intend to go to college and by all means meet her parents and she should meet your parents. I will say this again — have fun, laugh and joke around. Take her to dinner, movies and a picnic. Watch how she interact with other people– is she nice to only you? If you enjoy her company and she makes you smile when you see her, then the next step is getting serious. Good luck
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November 7th, 2009 at 5:11 pm
What, you fall for someone and the fun is gone are you kidding your with that person because they are fun and you want to be around them Son lighten up something tells me you come off like a bull in heat and your scaring the hell out of them or she sees you as a easy mark to tease. Starting a relationship is getting to know each other you get to serious right off the start and I’ll tell you will scare them off every time why because your telling them you want one thing. YES LIGHTEN UP AND HAVE FUN WITH IT. Put another way as the spider said to the fly come into my web. Get the message.
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November 7th, 2009 at 5:59 pm
….you fucked up lol. why wouldn’t you make out with her.
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November 7th, 2009 at 6:31 pm
it should be serious
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November 7th, 2009 at 7:20 pm
you should be somewhat serious… but it doesnt mean you cant have fun, its a matter of how the other person reacts to. If they want to joke, then sorta go along, and if you want to be serious, then dont go with people that joke around. Mainly, if you realy want to get somewhere, then dont joke. A lot of boys i think like to joke around and play with the girls heart before they actually get serious about things. You just have to choose whether or not to be one of them.
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